The only person who turned my head on the red carpet the other night was Billy Porter, the Broadway star whose black velvet tuxedo gown was as beautiful as it was transgressive.
When I saw Porter, with that voluminous ball gown skirt trailing behind him, I felt as if I were seeing the contemporary equivalent of the mythical centaur — a proud man’s head and torso appended to an unexpected but perfect bottom half.
“My goal is to be a walking piece of political art every time I show up,” he told Vogue magazine. “I’ve always wanted to wear a ballgown. I just didn’t know when.”
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The outfit won him the Oscar-watching world’s attention. Early Sunday evening, he was trending on Twitter. On Monday, he spent most of the day in interviews.
When I finally reached him Monday evening, his husky voice was ragged from all the talking.
He and his husband, Adam Porter-Smith, were about to leave Los Angeles for Bora Bora, where they would join a South Pacific cruise that was already underway. “Sounds glamorous, doesn’t it?” he said with a chuckle. “I’ll be performing.”
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Laura Harrier, from left, Chris Evans and Sarah Paulson. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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HIT: Charlize Theron evokes a Delft bust in this bluish-gray backless Dior Couture gown with Bulgari jewels. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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MISS: Olivia Colman looks as if she’s a new baby being swaddled, albeit in a gorgeous Prada gown inspired by her stylist’s trips through the desert. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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HIT: KiKi Layne is a vision in pink Atelier Versace (one of Sunday’s go-to hues) with a giant shoulder embellishment. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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HIT: Lady Gaga completes her season-long red-carpet fashion winning streak in a dreamy, “mistress of the dark” gown by Alexander McQueen with long leather gloves and a 128-carat diamond necklace from Tiffany & Co. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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HIT: David Oyelowo is right on point in a custom Etro tuxedo in forest green. (Frazer Harrison / Getty Images)
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MISS: Glenn Close goes for gold in a 42-pound Carolina Herrera gown with an imperious cape and train but comes up short. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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MISS: Pharrell is a musical phenomenon, but he leaves us wanting more in the way of inseams with this camouflage short pants suit and a Chanel nameplate necklace. (Etienne Laurent / EPA-EFE/REX )
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HIT: Laura Harrier is simply sweet in a pale blue, high-slit custom Louis Vuitton gown with a silk periwinkle lining. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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HIT: Chris Evans is a standout in this teal tuxedo jacket by Salvatore Ferragamo. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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MISS: Sarah Paulson typically gets major fashion kudos, but she misses the mark in this vivid yet shapeless Brandon Maxwell crop top with matching ball skirt. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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MISS: Spike Lee gets points for paying tribute to Prince with a purple suit and a long necklace featuring the late artist’s ubiquitous symbol. Unfortunately the outfit seems more tailored to the Film Independent Spirit Awards than the Academy Awards. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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HIT: Regina King is absolutely glowing in a white-hot Oscar de la Renta gown, set off with jewelry from Haute Joaillerie Collection. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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MISS: Maya Rudolph gives us an overdose of flower power in a pink floral gown by Giambattista Valli. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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HIT: Elsie Fisher brings a touch of gender-bending to the carpet courtesy of a Thom Browne suit and laced-up platform boots. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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MISS: Kacey Musgraves continues her pink awards season theme in a poufy, multi-tiered Giambattista Valli couture gown. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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HIT: Awkwafina brings her best “Austin Powers” look with a giant bow shirt under a glittering pink suit by DSquared2. (The actress-singer said the Canadian brothers “have been dressing me since the beginning.”) (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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HIT: Jennifer Lopez reflects the glamor of the Oscars in a gold-embroidered mirror mosaic gown by Tom Ford. (Richard Shotwell / Invision/AP)
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MISS: SZA misses the mark in an all-over-the-place high-low couture number by legendary designer Vivienne Westwood. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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HIT: Michelle Yeoh is ever the matriarch in an off-the-shoulder evening gown embroidered with golden threads and sequins from Elie Saab Haute Couture. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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HIT: Richard E. Grant looks sharp in a burgundy velvet blazer and tuxedo from Brunello Cucinelli. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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MISS: Marie Kondo could use a little coaching on the consolidation of patterns and colors in this Jenny Packham gown. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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HIT: Billy Porter owned the Oscars red carpet in a custom velvet and satin tuxedo jacket by Christian Siriano over a strapless ball gown. As a result, he became a trending topic on social media during pre-Oscars coverage. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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HIT: Emilia Clarke pulls out all the majestic stops in a custom silver Balmain Couture gown. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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HIT: Gemma Chan sent the internet a flutter in a billowing fuchsia taffeta Valentino gown with expanding frills (and pockets!) and earrings from Bulgari. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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MISS: Linda Cardellini looks like a nightgown nightmare in this ruffled red high-low gown by Schiaparelli. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
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HIT: Stephan James is a red-carpet standout in a custom crimson tuxedo by Etro -- complete with an oversized bowtie. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times)
In 2013, Porter won a Tony for his portrayal of the drag queen Lola in the musical “Kinky Boots.” He’s getting ready to shoot the second season of Ryan Murphy’s FX show, “Pose,” about the demimonde of competitive drag queens in 1980s New York as the AIDS crisis was peaking.
He plays Pray Tell, the hilariously bitchy ballroom emcee and volcano of compliments and insults as the queens strut their (usually homemade) stuff: “I don’t know of a princess or a queen who gets their clothes from… Casual Corner!”
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His work in “Pose” has put him on the awards shows red carpets this year. His first attention-grabbing outfit – an embroidered suit and matching full-length cape with hot pink lining – was a step toward the Oscars night ball gown.
“I have subjugated this instinct in myself for years,” he said. “It’s the very thing I have run from my whole life. When you are black and gay and you grow up in the church in the African American culture, it’s like your masculinity is in question at every turn. But what does that mean, to be masculine? To be strong and powerful? Women wear pants all the time, and nobody bats an eye, but a man puts on a dress and that’s disgusting?”
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Just like the fashion runways of the world, the Oscars red carpet is a fashion fantasy land. For the fantasy to work, everyone must buy in. But every once in a while, someone refuses to play along. Or bends the rules. A Frances McDormand, say, whose sack-like dresses, Birkenstocks and bare face constitute an aggressive rejection of Hollywood’s artifice (and a metaphor for her career).
Or a Billy Porter, who offers a different kind of truth; that men can be comfortable outside the “masculine” norms that guide most men’s runway choices.
That Jason Momoa can wear a pale pink scrunchie on his wrist and be considered transgressive is all you need to know about the narrow range of acceptable male fashion expression.
“It’s truly about authenticity,” Porter told me. “It’s easy to be who you are when who you are is popular. How can you be authentic when everything you are is reviled?”
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He’s not wrong. Among the first nasty reactions to his gown was the insufferable Piers Morgan, who tweeted, “Am I allowed to say this looks absolutely ridiculous? #BillyPorter.”
This is the more benign expression of a serious problem. Despite all the recent gains for LGBTQ civil rights, there’s a relentless pushback from the Christian right, and a willingness on the part of the Trump administration to shore up a shrinking base by attempting to reverse progress.
Porter’s outfit was an unflinching refutation of that, and reminded me of the old gay-rights slogan: We’re here, we’re queer, get used to it.
Porter’s gown was created by the designer Christian Siriano, a “Project Runway” winner who went on to rescue Leslie Jones, who tweeted that no one wanted to dress her for the premiere of “Ghostbusters” in 2016.
Siriano stepped forward and created an off-shoulder, body skimming red gown that became an instant bestseller for him. Since then, he’s become something of a patron saint to the Not-Size-Zero crowd.
When Porter asked him to make a gown, Siriano did not hesitate.
The first time he tried it on, Porter told Vogue, “I felt alive. I felt free. And open, and radiant. And beautiful! Which has not always been the case for me. I haven’t always felt so good about myself. It really is astonishing how much of an effect clothes have on your spirit.”
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On Oscar night, he told me, the feeling was even more intense.
“I felt like I can float on air,” he said. “I can conquer the world.”
Robin Abcarian is an opinion columnist at the Los Angeles Times. She writes about news, politics and culture. Her columns appear on Wednesday and Sunday. Follow her on Bluesky @rabcarian.bsky.social and Threads @rabcarian.